The Mind Shield journal
Field notes on attention.
Essays on digital wellness, DNS security, and reclaiming your attention from systems designed to take it.
How to Set a Workplace Screen Policy Without Becoming the Police
Most workplace filtering fails for cultural reasons, not technical ones. The rules that survive are the ones a team agreed to in advance and can see the boundaries of.
Read full post→Who Sees Your DNS Queries, and What They Can Work Out From Them
People assume DNS queries are too boring to reveal anything. A week of domain names, with timestamps, is one of the most revealing datasets an ordinary person generates.
Read full post→What to Block at 7, 11 and 15 (and What to Stop Blocking)
The mistake is not being too strict or too lenient. It is setting rules once at age seven and never revisiting them, so a teenager is governed by decisions made for a child.
Read full post→What a DNS Layer Actually Stops Before It Reaches Your Team
Phishing, malware and data theft almost all pass through one narrow step: a name lookup. Understanding exactly where that step sits explains both what DNS filtering catches and what it will never catch.
Read full post→Talking to Your Child About Device Rules: Three Conversations by Age
The setup takes twenty minutes. The conversation is what decides whether the rule lasts a fortnight or a few years, and most parents are given no help with it at all.
Read full post→The Layers of DNS Privacy: DoH, DoT, ODoH and What Each One Actually Hides
Each DNS privacy mechanism removes one specific observer. Knowing which one, and what remains visible afterwards, is the difference between a real threat model and a comfortable feeling.
Read full post→How to Audit a DNS Provider's Privacy Claims: A Checklist
Every DNS provider says they respect your privacy. Here are the eleven questions that distinguish the ones who have thought about it, and what a bad answer to each one looks like.
Read full post→Digital Hygiene: A Weekly Routine That Takes Twenty Minutes
Digital hygiene is usually presented as a list of two hundred things nobody does. Here is the short version: a twenty-minute weekly pass, a monthly one, and the things you can safely ignore.
Read full post→Keeping a teen's phone safer, without spying on them
You can filter harmful content and manipulative app design at the network level without reading a single message. Protection and privacy are not opposites. Here is how to keep both.
Read full post→DNS Filtering vs a VPN: What Each Actually Protects (and When You Need Which)
A VPN and a DNS filter get confused constantly, but they solve different problems. Here is what each one actually does, what it does not do, and when running both makes sense.
Read full post→DNS Blocking for Focus: A Calmer Internet for ADHD and Deep Work
Willpower is the wrong tool for a problem built into the design of the apps you use. Here is how moving the block down to the DNS layer changes the math.
Read full post→Apple Screen Time + DNS Filtering: The Complete-Coverage Setup for Families
Screen Time and Digital Wellbeing manage time and apps on a single device. DNS filtering covers the network layer for everything else. Here's how to run them together.
Read full post→How to Set Up Encrypted DNS (DoH / DoT) on Your Router in 2026
Setting encrypted DNS once at your router protects every device on the network. Here is how DoH and DoT work, when to use each, and how to configure them.
Read full post→DNS Filtering for Business: Block Malware, Phishing, and Distractions Without an Agent
Most small teams don't have time to roll out endpoint software on every laptop and phone. Resolver-level DNS filtering covers the whole org from one place, and it is honest about what it can and cannot do.
Read full post→The Quiet Revolution: Why Digital Wellness Is the Next Public Health Movement
Every major public health movement started with skeptics, families, and researchers against an industry that said the product was fine. Digital wellness is the next one, and it is already further along than you think.
Read full post→Why Your Focus Has Been Stolen, and How to Take It Back
It was not your willpower that broke. Someone built this to break it. Here is how I stopped blaming myself and started redesigning the room around me.
Read full post→You're Not a Bad Parent for Giving Your Kid a Phone. Here's What to Do Next.
You gave your kid a phone because every other kid had one, and you were tired. You are not alone, and you are not a bad parent. Here is what to actually do next.
Read full post→Why Most Adult Content Blockers Fail (And What Actually Stops It)
Teenagers are clever, tech is imperfect, and no blocker is bulletproof. Here's the honest list of how blockers fail, and the real plan that works.
Read full post→Can Schools Block Porn on Student Phones? Yes, Here's How It Actually Works
A student's phone is the hardest device in the building to control. Here's exactly what a school can and cannot do about it, and where the honest limits are.
Read full post→DoH vs DoT vs Classic DNS: What Your Router Should Use in 2026
Classic DNS is a postcard. DoT is a sealed envelope. DoH is a sealed envelope hidden inside regular mail. Here's which one to use, and where.
Read full post→What a DNS Log Actually Contains, and Why It Matters
Every website you visit starts with a DNS query. Whether that query gets written down, and by whom, is quietly one of the most important privacy choices you will make.
Read full post→How DNS Filtering Works: A Parent's Guide in Plain English (2026)
DNS is the Internet's phonebook. Here's exactly how flipping one setting can protect your whole household, in plain English.
Read full post→Screen Time Is the Wrong Metric. Here's What to Track Instead
Measuring screen time is like measuring food by weight. Two hours of video-calling grandma is not two hours of short-video scrolling. Here's what to track instead.
Read full post→Your Brain on Social Media: The Dopamine Trap Nobody's Fixing
Dopamine is not pleasure. It is wanting. The social feed hijacks wanting, then ships it to your family's pocket, forever.
Read full post→The Hidden Cost of Infinite Scroll: What Neuroscience Really Tells Us
Infinite scroll was invented by one engineer in 2006. He has since apologized. Here is what the neuroscience actually shows, and what you can do.
Read full post→Why Your Kid Can't Put Down the Phone, and What Actually Works
Your child's phone is not a toy. It's a casino designed by the smartest engineers on earth. Here's what works, and what doesn't.
Read full post→How to Block Adult Content on Your Home WiFi Without Installing Any Apps (2026 Guide)
One DNS change on your router protects every device in the house (phones, tablets, smart TVs, visitors' laptops) in under 5 minutes. Here's exactly how.
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